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Palgamdxorzjhi : If theres a restraining order against the father can we still sign the paternity papers and have it notarized if i sign it at the hospital and then mail it out to him or give it to his lawyer?

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VanIOi : Hopefully I can get some helpful, kind answers.

I have this problem with my boyfriend of 5 years (I'm 20, he's 21, he works a full time job, I work part time, we live together and plan on getting married in a few years). He is obsessed with being the "biggest fan" of 5 certain fandoms (Harry Potter, Zelda, Lemony Snicket, AFI, and Squidbillies) that he held onto dearly during his crappy child hood. His mom mentally and physically abused, and he used these five fandoms as an escape from his life. They also grew up poor (well, his mother would blow all the money they had an stuff from CL), and he never got to buy hardly any toys or anything from these fandoms that all his friends did, not even the books.

Now, as an adult of 21, he as the compulsive need to ALWAYS prove that he is the best or biggest fan in those fandoms. It's mainly obsessive buying of merchandise, along with hours of time spent researching and memorizing facts about them. He has to feel as if he can prove his devotion to the fandom and that he is "the biggest fan" in both knowledge and merchandise, or going to as many concerts as possible. It puts massive stress on him when he doesn't feel he is the biggest fan or can't buy something in that fandom.

It's always AFI, lemony snicket, zelda, harry potter, and squidbillies, but he hops around every month or so to which one he focuses on. It always feels like a constant weight on him, and he's extremely stressed out by this.

I try to understand, but it's hard for me to. It puts a huge crutch on us financially, as he's always wanting to buy more and more merchandise. He's spent over $1000 this last year, which doesn't seem like a lot, but when we have nothing in savings, and live pay check to pay check, it's hard.

I want to save money, for emergencies, and just to have some money saved up. I've drawn up budget plans and have spending and saving stuff I drew up in excel to track how much and on what we each spend. He wants to save as well, but for more stuff. (Before we moved in together and had bills to pay, I had $1000 in my savings, but that vanished with the bills and getting very few hours at first. He had $2 in his savings)

I thought after he bought his $400 record, it'd be enough. He'd be content. But it's NEVER enough. He already is "saving up" $600 to go to 4 concerts, and saw something he really wants on ebay.

He does want to start saving like I am though, and is happy with the budget plans. But at the same time, he is extremely stressed about it too. We talk about this too, but I don't know how to solve it. So here I am on the interwebs. :p

Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you!
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briantompsenrtyfd : Tell him that you accept his fandom but point out that there
is the higher matter of your future.
Offer him a serious about your relationship by
spending a great deal less on concerts, etc. OR face that
you will move on. And mean it!
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Medicalfave : Did the same thing with Gilligans Island, not buying tons of stuff just having to know every fact. Let him be a fan just tell him if he's going to make a big purchase to talk to you beforehand.
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goodevry11 : was the ceo of the largest hospital corporation. HCA
hospital corpation of america.

like 15 years ago and imbezelled 100s of million dollars.

my dad was working for 1 of his hospitals and he had the FBI come in for a raid.
and the hospitals destroting all there files.

here is the article on wikepedia.

Columbia/HCA fraud case details
On March 19, 1997, investigators from the FBI, the Internal Revenue Service and the Department of Health and Human Services served search warrants at Columbia/HCA facilities in El Paso and on dozens of doctors with suspected ties to the company.[26] The Columbia/HCA board of directors pressured Scott to resign as Chairman and CEO following the inquiry.[27] He was paid $9.88 million in a settlement. He also left owning 10 million shares of stock worth over $350 million.[28][29][30] In 1999, Columbia/HCA changed its name back to HCA, Inc.
In settlements reached in 2000 and 2002, Columbia/HCA pled guilty to 14 felonies and agreed to a $600+ million fine in the largest fraud settlement in US history. Columbia/HCA admitted systematically overcharging the government by claiming marketing costs as reimbursable, by striking illegal deals with home care agencies, and by filing false data about use of hospital space. They also admitted fraudulently billing Medicare and other health programs by inflating the seriousness of diagnoses and to giving doctors partnerships in company hospitals as a kickback for the doctors referring patients to HCA. They filed false cost reports, fraudulently billing Medicare for home health care workers, and paid kickbacks in the sale of home health agencies and to doctors to refer patients. In addition, they gave doctors "loans" never intending to be repaid, free rent, free office furniture, and free drugs from hospital pharmacies.[3][4][5][6][7]
In late 2002, HCA agreed to pay the U.S. government $631 million, plus interest, and pay $17.5 million to state Medicaid agencies, in addition to $250 million paid up to that point to resolve outstanding Medicare expense claims.[31] In all, civil law suits cost HCA more than $2 billion to settle, by far the largest fraud settlement in US history.[32]
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abigeodia : What is your point exactly?
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weeliemninems : Actually, all that came out in 2010, when he was elected.
We can only hope that the people of Florida have come to their senses since then.
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nanadokilalo : Hi! I'm 18 and going to my first gyno appt in 40 mins to get birth control. I don't want the pill cause I know I'll forget days. But anyway, how does payment work? I'm going with my friend and not my mom. Do I have to have a credit card to pay for it or will it be billed to my health insurance? If I get an IUD will the payment work differently than with a month-to-month thing?
also, i need to be tested for all the STDs - does that cost extra?
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sursinkivarah : You may have a co-pay of 20.00 dollars or so but most insurances provided well woman checks once a year without charge. I believe it will cover the cost of a IUD and the STD check is part of the yearly screening if you're sexually active.
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fakeoakleysy4 : Depends on your insurance but if you have a co pay you can pay with your credit card and the rest will be billed to insurance.
The STDs are tested trhough blood work and that means a lab charge usually about $200.
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